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My girlfriend does not want to wait.

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a good period of time it has been going well but, these past months she cant stop insisting that we have sex. It has really been a struggle for me I am afraid that this will ruin our relationship.Any tips?

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  1. Is it even a good relationship if you can't talk to your girlfriend directly about this? You're on an anonymous internet forum asking this question to a bunch of other high schoolers. 
    Well, how long have you been dating and when do you want to get to the level of having sex with your girlfriend? I'm still a virgin at 22 and my girlfriend and I have been going strong now for about 3 years. Since she is extremely religious, she wants to wait until marriage and I love her that much and want to be with her for the rest of my life, so I don't mind waiting at all despite all the temptations society might try to throw at me. When you have sex is an individual decision to make, and only you know when you are ready for that. There is no age limit to do it (despite what the movie 40-year-old virgin might tell you). 
    But, a more important problem here is being unable to express your concerns to your girlfriend. This is a very small problem in life, you'll face much bigger challenges moving forward. If you and your girl don't have mutual respect and communication right now, then it will only get worse as you meet further challenges in your relationship. 
    What grade are you in? Do you believe you will still remain with this girl after high school, even if both of you go to separate universities/colleges and the relationship becomes a long-term distance one?

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  2. Why don't you just buy her a dildo from the adult toy store as a birthday present and whenever her libido starts acting up, just tell her to get freaky.

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  3. So, you shouldn’t be afraid of it. However, I would recommend you to have experience with mature women at first. You can find a beautiful one on and this way you will be ready. I think the wishes of your girlfriend are common.

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  4. Why it should break up your relations? I suppose that it could make it stronger only. If you will not fuck her, then she could find someone another, think about it. Do you want her to be fucked by someone from this website hm? I don’t think so

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